Our first order of business with the new mentored and mentors was to play a card game of Solo, which is a simple game where you have to match numbers and colors, plus it has some twist, etc. We\u2019ve played at least for an hour the first day, then we\u2019ve repeated it on the second and third days. Around this point, Gerg\u0151\u2019s idea to raise the stakes struck: the loser washes the dishes the next day after all of the three meals. Everybody got so enthusiastic that we knew by the next day that we\u2019ve got a new tradition for us here. This became the method to determine who\u2019s doing which chore the next day: who washes the dishes in the morning\/noon\/night, who covers the table, who folds the laundry, who\u2019s mopping. The game is mostly based on luck, there\u2019s no real chance to play tactics, and the 6-7 games every night are mostly lost by different people (or won, based on the point of view). If somebody\u2019s not in the mood to play, he has to choose one chore for the next day. This is a pretty time-consuming method of decision, we play for 1,5 hours every night, but we have loads of fun in return.<\/p>\n
G\u00fcnther\u2019s mother, Ad\u00e9l arrived to us on the 9th<\/sup> of August (these are not real names of them, just as I changed the names in every previous blog post), and she stays until the very end of the turn. P\u00e1l Vaskuti conducts intensive family therapy with the two of them, and Ad\u00e9l joins us on our group therapies too, where she shared her and her son\u2019s story with us. Our discussions are quite intense, we have many new people \u2013 five people out of 11 came in August -, everyday somebody new introduces him\/herself. We talk around 1 hour about every participant. After the introduction, we can ask questions and reflect. Honesty and being detailed are important \u2013 it\u2019s pointless otherwise.<\/p>\n Ad\u00e9l is the first parent who\u2019s here with us. Ad\u00e9l really feels how to be present in the therapy: she hid behind no veil but revealed their relationship with G\u00fcnther uncompromised, uncensored. Two kids in our group are adopted and this was the first time for them to see directly how a relationship between even blood relatives can go wrong, and can the relationship between the adopted child and the parent be less problematic.<\/p>\n Originally we wanted to prepare a theatrical play, then later we decided together with the kids to make a movie instead of theatre play. After long hours with the screen-play and loads of planning, we started to shoot the movie a few weeks ago \u2013 now we are done with 95% of the planned recordings. We even have enough shots to make several short films, so we film a few more scenes during the week and when the most of the group goes on a trip on the 18th<\/sup>, Pisti and I will cut the movie so we can get done with it before we depart home.<\/p>\n Bence\u2019s mother and father are coming on the 14th<\/sup> \u2013 that increases the headcount to 13. After that, the group\u2019s consistence is final until the end of the turn.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Our first order of business with the new mentored and mentors was to play a card game of Solo, which is a simple game where you have to match numbers and colors, plus it has some twist, etc. We\u2019ve played at least for an hour the first day, then we\u2019ve repeated it on the second […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chanceprogram.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1737"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chanceprogram.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chanceprogram.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chanceprogram.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chanceprogram.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1737"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.chanceprogram.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1737\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1738,"href":"https:\/\/www.chanceprogram.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1737\/revisions\/1738"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.chanceprogram.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1737"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chanceprogram.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1737"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.chanceprogram.hu\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1737"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}